The allure of distance. Something beyond reach
I can never know. Trains rumbling over
rust outside my window. Engines startled
into going nowhere fast. How long
have I been here, listening? What songs
remain possible to sing? Ant hills
and galaxies are assembled every day.
But the mind is slow to catch up.
It is busy determining itself
in the mirror of its name.
How quickly it forgets even that
when, rushing off into the horizon
Hollow out the rooms. Compress
every detail into boxes locked
in permanent ink: kitchen, bedroom, handle
with care, fragile. It takes awhile. Even after
settling the dust that licked our letters. The sediment
of sentiment that adorned our dreams.
The sigh sagging from your mouth. The key
in the clumsy crook. How hard we tried
to make a dwelling. Something of ourselves
in the brief breath of what we knew
to be our lives. The air remains still
to be breathed. Remember the floorboards
who took you in. How every step managed
to impress them. Those who would not forget.
It’s you and me
standing on the edge
between two subway
cars riding the seven
line hands holding
the rails facing each other
on our way to a Mets
game our faces are pressed
into the afternoon
hair waving watching
the city pass us by
with smiles unsure
what the next
stop is happy not
knowing where the cops
are stationed since
we are committed
to acts of violence
against deadened hearts;
our eyes catch the gaze
of children moving
the opposite direction
we are role models
in our histrionic
display of true affection
now you’re screaming
fair play every strike
every swing I’m in
your line of fire
even the moths don’t know
the difference between
the stadium lights
that frame our smiles and
the rising flame between
a home run and a kiss
what was once a bubble
is now the whole
of the crowd this game
is us swinging keeping
time at bay
You got a new car: a 20 25 Tacoma. It’s practical you said:
look at the 6 by 7 truck bed! Sure 23 miles to the gallon
isn’t great but who’s counting? You are I guess when you
laugh and tell me it’s your last car—consider the commute
times the distances you drive now which don’t add up
to be much since work is closer to you than I am
here across the country—I get it, I said, it’s practical

He starts with with his height: six foot something
(as if he didn’t know) which is in fact bigger than mine.
We’ve talked about this (my tendency to self-compare)
but look at how close he is to the magnolias from up there.
Now he’s a poet too. He sees what I see only once
it’s fallen to the ground, making a mess of things
like I do, often without a sound. The inches added
won’t bring me closer to anyone (my parents on Magnolia
street for example) or anything. But he assures me that Spring
has a petal for everyone. Maybe it is all mission, like Rilke said.
Minor probable disasters waiting everywhere to blossom.
Even here within this mess, a menage that houses
things I have yet to confess, flowers that need only
a vase (and the slobberiest part of my kiss)
There’s a chance this works:
Meaning the odds are in our favor:
Meaning I’ll do better next time.
Arguments will be concluded, calls
answered, the dog fed even
without your constant reminders.
Romance will be back in vogue.
I’ll even read the Roy and Howe
you hold so close to your heart
just to have something to say
when you walk through the door.
You misunderstand: it’s impossible.
We’d have to try over and over again
before a conclusion can be made.
That’s how we’d know for sure.
Besides: the evidence is weak.
Meaning: the boxes are packed:
Meaning: my arms are slumped
like a broken slinky and will remain
so. I’ve learned who you are.
And I am stuck in my ways.
Twiggy spider
on my yoga mat
thank you for undoing
the past hour
of self folding
and holding with your
unannounced appearance.
I know
you’ve been watching
and have suggestions
for how
I carry my body.
After all I have
a thousand times
the neurons and only
a fraction
of your intention
and grace.
You walk on eight
stilettos and still
men like me
chase beauty
and women
and forget
you exist.
But we get each other.
We’re foreign
to ourselves
but not strangers.
We give
birth
and die.
And in
the in-between
we weave
and cradle
worlds
with our extremities.
We might even
for a second
acknowledge
the other
in passing:
I a moving
mountain,
You a pebble
who has seen
it all
from your
small corner
of the world.
How beautiful it is
that landlocked bodies
of water will find
their way to the ocean
through crevasses
no one else can see.
That something as light
as wind can carry
the heaviness of traveled waves
for miles through miles
of emptiness and longing
to distant shorelines
where at last they may find
a witness to their journey.
There goes the body again
trying to find answers
where only questions exist.
Where do we go from here?
Why does hope feel so heavy?
Who am I without love and direction?
Rilke said to live
the questions, as if
by following the curves
of their bodies
you would be led
to the full-stop of your life.
Of course,
everyone has their answers
and I am still here
writing of curves and bodies.
Such is life they say.
Did Rilke live his?